Carpe Diem - easier said than done for a self-professed procrastinator. But for the love of my life, I finally keyed my first sentence, then the second, and the third... as a recording of memories I'd want to remember, good or bad, a gift from Mommy to U - Dear Baby En

"From Baby En to Baby Kang, both my darlings, equally precious. May this journal keep u company, when Mummy can no longer be there......"

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Saturday, 29 December 2007

我要快乐

性格使然,我不是个很快乐的人。自认相当悲观,也是个cynic。而且一旦对某人、事、物产生某一种想法,就很难改变。比如某人若一开始就让我对他的处事方式感到很反感,接下来,只要他再做出任何小动作,即使无关痛痒,我也觉得难以忍受,极端厌恶。
我的脑袋永远停不下来,是个思绪很频密的人。时不时会想些有的没的,就这样,经常会想些跟自己沾不上边的事,甚至在事情未发生时,预知可能会发生的事,而且通常都是一些我不喜欢预见的状况,弄得自己心情烦闷。
最近SY让我看了“秘密”。虽然才刚开始接触,但觉得Law of Attraction瞒有道理。所以我决定了,我要快乐。虽然别人可以影响我们的情绪,但我们可以选择如何去调试它。我要学习让自己更乐观,让身边的人活得较没有压力,让自己过的更轻松、自在。

3 comments:

jUzMe said...

What is the "Law of Attraction" huh?

babyvinz said...

To make it simple, it just means Like attracts Like. So if u keep thinking negative, e.g. about things u don't want to happen to u, u will attract these bad things to u instead. So, if we keep thinking positive thoughts, e.g. happiness, wealth, health etc, then we'll attract these things to us. It does ring a bell to me when I think about it. So when I resolve to be happy, I try my best to think Happy.

It's a frequency thing. That's how the universe responds to us.

Anonymous said...

Well said RY! And I am real happy for you that you have made up your mind to be happy.

The universe has responded to my request. :)